Is your relationship for eternity, or already doomed?
Every relationship has its ups and downs, but if you can answer two questions with “yes”, it always has a meaning
Relationships are something beautiful, however, they are not always easy. There are always ups and downs. However, you should make sure that the ups outweigh the downs!
You and your partner are going through a difficult phase, or you are not sure if your relationship still has a future? Do not jump to conclusions. Think carefully before you do something you will regret.
We give you a very simple guide:
As soon as you can’t answer these 2 questions with “yes”, it is quite clear what you should do. Because then you are holding on to something that will not make you happy in the long run.
If you can answer the question with “yes” you don’t have to worry about it
1. Would you still hold on to the relationship if it was just starting?
You have been together for ages, you have already put a lot of strength and tears into this relationship? That’s right, then of course it would be all the sadder to separate, especially if you have already gone through so much together.
But this way of thinking is wrong! Especially couples who argue a lot and have been through many crises think this way. But maybe there is a reason why you quarrel so often. Ever thought that the relationship is no longer worth the effort? It’s sad, but just ask yourself:
Would you still be holding on to the relationship if you had only been together for a week and you hadn’t put any effort into it yet?
If the couple can also answer “yes” to this question, it looks good for the relationship
2. If you wake up tomorrow single, would you date your partner?
Imagine waking up tomorrow and suddenly being single, who would you most like to date (Channing Tatum aside)? Is it your current partner? Then you don’t have to worry, your fire hasn’t gone out yet.
But if you would decide against him, there is something wrong with you and you should think about whether you really want to go on like this. Because then you are probably only together with him, because you are afraid to end it. But you shouldn’t, you will feel better afterwards.